That is one thing that we have struggled with. I have talked to the agent that is handling the "destination wedding" and I have had three different things told to me: First she said we would have pay to get onto the property for both the rehearsal dinner and wedding. Next she said we would just pay for the dinner. Last she said we wouldn't have to pay since we were going to be guests at the wedding. So who freakin knows
Today I looked up cost for both and they were fairly compairable

Only difference really was the insurance coverage if we wanted to include it.
Is it smart to work through this destination wedding agent (She is in CA and we are in CO) or should I find a local agent that I can actually sit down with?