Originally Posted by Rissask
What story....there is no story! There were no details given (and sorry Mel, this has morphed from your situation, for sure, I am sure!
We were talking about someone from the past 'making amends'.....not sure what would necessitate making amends in your eyes, Mogs....in mine it is likely something a bit more serious than being late for a date or something.
and real funny, but pretty rude!!!!
my grand total is actually fewer than 20, baby.
Pretty hard to answer that from a single person POV, but I honestly think if they contacted me and wanted to meet- probably I would not want to meet with any of them. Been there, done that, no need to rehash.
Now, some of the ones I never actually dated seriously/slept with, those I might want to meet with. But don't we all have fonder memories of those who remain a bit of a mystery and 'got away'?
Ok, well than I guess its just me. I also have very little need to rehash the past, but if someone needed to see me and it was no real problem than I would give them the time. For me all the bad of the past always fades away and only good remains.
...................and sorry if that was rude, trying to be funny