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Love her, love her, lover her! I too have a "difficult" parent. Mine has had several strokes and now it is hard for her to communicate and move around. She has lost all independence and becomes very angry or distraunt. If your father passed only 5 months ago, you mother is very lonely. Imagine losing your spouse or child. I would be devastated and I am sure that it would effect my perspective on the enjoyment of my life. Included her in as much as possible. Include the memories of your father in the holidays. I'm sure you would much rather have a "difficult" mother than a dead one. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I wish I could spend more time with my mom before she passes.
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