Okay, since youre here, I have a delimma. A co-worker sort of set me up with a date for our Christmas party without even asking me. I've only seen the guy (cute) never talked to him. I have his number and was suppose to call him a day or so ago

. I think I'd like to go out with him but not to the party, not really a great place for a first date. I'm getting ready to call him...what do I say? I feel bad for 'cancelling' but I didn't ask him to go.......??????? ughh.